It’s getting tiresome looking on social media and seeing Christians bashing one another. No wonder the world points their fingers and laughs at us. The sad thing is, Christians are fighting each other over trivial matters. They’ll argue over the most minute things but when it comes to defending God’s Word and how to properly interpret Scripture, they’re silent. Jesus accused the Pharisees of “straining a gnat but swallowing a camel”. This comment was made because they concentrated too much on one aspect of the law but ignored a more important part (https://www.studylight.org/language-studies/difficult-sayings/index.cgi?a=419)
I just finished reading the comments to a post where a member of the Christian band, Third Day, went to see a friend of his who is in the band Tesla and they were in concert with Poison and Def Leppard. This friend he went to see is also a professing Christian. The majority of the people commenting were saying how they were glad he got to hang out with his friend, some were saying how they would love to see those three bands in concert together, and one woman jumps in and criticizes the guy for being at “secular, heavy metal concert” because if he’s a Christian, he shouldn’t be there. He needs to be in the world not OF the world. Mind you, if she understood the context of that verse, being “of the world” means he would have been partaking in the stuff that went on at the concert such as drinking, doing drugs, and all the other things some band members and concert goers partake in. But, I’m guessing he was not. He was just there to see his friend and hear the music. Now, in her case, she may have an issue going to concerts like that and that’s FINE!! It may be that her conscience doesn’t allow her to go to concerts like that. But, the Bible speaks against us imposing OUR conscience on someone else on matters that the Bible doesn’t not address specifically.
Most good ol’ southern Christians will tell you that you can’t drink alcohol. “It’s a SIN!!!”, they say. No, the Bible doesn’t forbid alcohol. It forbids getting drunk with alcohol because it comes with serious consequences. Jesus turned the water into wine at the wedding in Cana. The Apostle Paul instructs Timothy to drink a little wine for his stomach because apparently he had health issues. Now, there are people who cannot drink alcohol in moderation. To them, they can’t stop at one or two. “Go big or go home!” is their motto. In cases like that, it IS a sin because it shows lack of self-control. Some people abstain from alcohol just because they believe it will harm their witness. And that’s FINE! But, I know some Christians who drink a glass of wine or two or have some sort of alcoholic drink IN MODERATION because they like it and that’s fine, too! It’s called self-control. Just because Jim Bob Billy Frank can’t exercise self-control, doesn’t mean that we have to tell everyone that they can’t drink. And, in reality, there’s nothing more hypocritical than an overweight preacher who can’t limit his trips to the buffet bar trying to tell people to abstain from alcohol when he can’t control how much food he puts in his mouth. Again, it’s called lack of self-control.
The same goes for movies, television, and music. At this point in my life, I’m getting very picky about what I watch just because there’s things being portrayed on the screen that make me uncomfortable as a Christian. But, I’m not going to force my conscience on someone else just because they have no problem with watching it. I still listen to the music I grew up with and the sad thing is, I’d rather listen to that than most of the Christian music that’s put out today because it’s man-centered and void of any good, sound theology. It’s too sugary and bubble gum for me. Thankfully, there’s a few Christian artists out there that put out some good music but it’s very few. But, if I choose to listen to a particular group/musician or watch a certain movie/TV show, it’s not someone’s place to impose their conscience on me just because they feel convicted by it.
The purpose of this rant, if you will, is to point out that the Holy Spirit deals with each person’s conscience differently when it comes to matters such as these. A Christian who can exercise self-control in areas such as alcohol sees no problem with having one or two drinks, but to one who cannot exercise that same self-control, it IS a sin because they are NOT exercising self-control, one of the Fruits of the Holy Spirit. The same goes for all the other subjects I covered. If you, as a Christian, refrain from watching a certain movie or TV show, or listening to or going to a concert of a secular band because your conscience tells you to, it is not your place to tell someone else they can’t because now you’re imposing your conscience on them when the Holy Spirit has not put any conviction upon them about it. You are now exercising legalism and acting like a Pharisee.